40niknar, I'm really sorry to hear that the USA Dance crowd there is not more open and supportive. To tell the truth, the situation is pretty much the same here in Atlanta - and we have TWO chapters (two groups of people who don't like each other).
The pros on the board can help you with the Fallaway. It's late and I need to hit the sack. Just keep in mind that a Fallaway is a backwards promenade.
You're welcome to any encouragement that I can give. I remember how tough it is to start out in ballroom dancing. I'm really glad that you have a partner.
Keep in touch.
jj