Re: Dance teacher leaves wife for student. Posted by pivotingfool 11/6/2009 11:00:00 AM
I have dance friends who have danced together for decades, and somehow kept their marrages together.
However, dance can be a huge problem because unless the man is really good, his wife will soon know all of his moves. How can any man keep it "New and exciting" for fourty years?
Sooner or later a person comes along that puts the, "New and exciting" back in the dance. This is when people must slap themselves upside the head and remember that, "New and Exciting" can't last forever.
Even the smalleat of problems in a marrage get magnified when you are dancing with a, "New and Exciting" person.
And before we go too far with blaming the men, I know lots of women who leave their husbands, and even their children, for a "New and exciting" male dance partner.
Women more often leave a husband who does not dance at all, but they also leave a husband who is no longer exciting to dance with.
The fact is that learning to dance together is a great way to prepare for marrage. (if you can get through dance lessons---