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Beginners Frame
Posted by FallsHiker
12/10/2009  4:00:00 AM
Hello Everyone:

Im still new to my lessons, I take both group and private lessons. My most recent frustration is with my frame in the group lessons.

Some of the ladies have good frames, and its wonderful to dance with them. Others have poor frames and its so frustrating because the lack of frame makes it so difficult to lead.

I pay a lot of attention to my frame, my question is, why is it that I cant always project a strong frame with these ladies? Is the problem mine, theirs or ours. What can I do to have a good frame with all of my different partners?

Thanks all for your help.
Re: Beginners Frame
Posted by quickstep7
12/10/2009  7:41:00 AM
Hi FallsHiker. To be honest, the girl you are dancing with will have to sort out her frame. It is noy your fault. To help you don't want to have too straight a back, try to bend forward a little so your weight is not completely on your heels.

The girl needs to bend a bit to the left to create a good frame.You know the frame is good if you create a C shape between the partners.

Anyway, basically she has to sort her frame through exercises and practice. Its nothing to do with you.
Re: Beginners Frame
Posted by Telemark
12/12/2009  2:44:00 AM
, try to bend forward a little so your weight is not completely on your heels


Man should stand in a natural upright position, with the body slightly inclined forward from the feet, body weight being felt over the balls of the feet. There should be little or no weight on the heels, so to think in terms of making an adjustment not to have the weight 'completely' on the heels is to have started out with fundamentally flawed posture.
Re: Beginners Frame
Posted by mdmarkum
12/10/2009  11:01:00 AM
Hi FallsHiker,

You're not alone in this area. Many new dancers, both men and women, are either not alerted to the importance of their frame (the teacher's fault), or they are not learning to dance with the purpose of obtaining some level of mastery of the finer aspect of couple dancing. Do some shoulder exercises to be prepared for the ladies who will "hang" on you. In a social dance setting, that is a reality you will face. There are ladies where I dance who make me pray for the song to end, and I am more fit than the average dancer. With the ladies I know well enough, I ask them to support their arms as they should. With some of the others, I grin and bear it as a gentlman should. I sometimes have to walk into the darkness to shake off the fatigue. I confess that I ask these ladies to dance on occasion just to be polite. Alas, it comes with the territory.
Re: Beginners Frame
Posted by dheun
12/10/2009  1:05:00 PM
Your biggest challenge will be understanding that you do need to adjust your frame a bit, depending on the long, tall, short, lean or stout partner you are dancing with at any given time.
Otherwise, it really is mostly the lady who will have to adjust and understand what a good frame feels like when presented to her.
As much as good frame is important, the other thing to watch for with different partners is how many of them understand how to create enough tension in the hold so that they are able to follow a good lead.
When that tension is correct, you will feel as if you are steering a set of handlebars on a bike, as opposed to trying to keep sturdy while someone else is hanging on or even pulling down on your shoulders.
Re: Beginners Frame
Posted by mdmarkum
12/11/2009  6:25:00 AM
I can speak for myself and a few other men I know on this issue. I go to social dances each week, and no matter how hard I and other men try to keep a good frame (make adjustments, etc.) in order to steer certain partners, there are some who will hang onto and drag down whatever you give them. It tires you, but you dance with them at least once to be courteous.
Re: Beginners Frame
Posted by sounddguy
9/10/2011  2:25:00 PM
There is one situation that you do need
to change your frame. If you are medium to tall and are dancing with a very short partner, your right hand needs to be slightly lower than normal. The reason is that if you use proper placement you force your partner arm to be inclined up toward her elbow which is very uncomfortable.

[ I'm 6' and my wife is 4' 11"]
Re: Beginners Frame
Posted by Anonymous
9/18/2011  2:39:00 PM
Sounddguy. Keep both elbows parallel. Use a little more incline of the arm and hand from the elbow. Never ever lower your right elbow. From the rear across your back the elbows will be parallel.
Re: Beginners Frame
Posted by sinead
1/27/2012  12:27:00 PM
Hi. You need to explain to your partner the reason why she should hold herself in what is a very unnatural position. When she understands that it helps the man to lead properly she will try harder to maintain a better hold. If she thinks it's merely for aesthetics(as I did) she is less likely to hold herself in an uncomfortable pose.You need to communicate with each other in any partnership and not just presume that the other person knows what you need.
Re: Beginners Frame
Posted by olderpartner
1/28/2012  11:24:00 AM
I understand your concern. Maintaining your frame requires considerable effort and practice. Unless you are an instructor I recommend you do not attempt to "correct" your partner's frame. If you are, as you say, new to dance you may not yet be able to evaluate the reasons why your own frame breaks or even when.

The best you can do is apply what you learn to develop your frame, lead, foot position, alignment, body position and the host of other elements. Then regardless of your partner for each dance, accept what you get and smile.

There was a time when my instructor said she could tell who my most recent partner had been by the way my frame changed. Keep practicing.

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