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Re: Really New & Scared
Posted by silver
9/23/2010  10:43:00 AM
It's downright rude for someone to leave you standing there because you don't know what they are trying to lead! If someone wants to act like an ass on the dance floor, don't dance with them. To do otherwise may just enable their poor behavior.
It's OK to say no to the ill-mannered.
Posted by jofjonesboro
9/23/2010  1:37:00 PM
I want to second what silver posted about rude partners.

I also want to point out that such behavior usually indicates that the guy is not a very good dancer but has been told that he is by an incompetent instructor.

If saying 'no' to such a jerk seems inadequate, we'll be happy to provide you with more "effective" responses.

Hang in there.

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