I don't blame you HUSBAND. If you don't enjoy dancing or not have much time to go with your wife, you have a problematic situation. I am 65 and have been dancing since I was 16, mostly social dancing. I go to ballroom dancing socially and had met several people. I also have known that several couples divorced because one spouse does not go dancing with the other often enough while the other fell in love with the other guys they go dancing with. To keep the home fires burning, I suggest that you try hard to learn and go dancing with your wife, otherwise, she will find another if she continues to go dancing without you and, of course, she would say "TATA" or "CIAO"!. SCARY, YES?