I, too, am a social dancer although I have competed.
I am sure that this sounds "sunshine and lollipops" but every dance that I do is "perfect".
No, the steps and patterns aren't. But, the dance is. When the song is right I sing as I dance (not loudly, not a good singer). When the song is right, I may add a swing turn in the corner while doing a foxtrot. When the song is right, I'll slip from Rumba, to Cha Cha and to Bolero.
My perfect dance is an expression of who I am and what I feel. Ergo, they are all perfect.