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Heh heh.
The man certainly has to learn more tha is true, but I can assure you that the 'man's speed' may be much faster than yours. And, since you discount the fact that you are also in the lesson, you should be learining everything that the man is learning as well.
75% of the mistakes? I really doubt it, but look at it this way -the lady has less to do (let's say half) so the proportion would be accurate - you'll have the smae amount of 'mistakes' as him, but since you feel he is doing more of the dancing than you,there may be more opportunities to 'make mistakes'.
This is very humorous, tho - many pro am ladies really DO feel that they are better dancers and that for some reason they are never the fault of the mediocre dancing that they seem to encounter. In reality, the pro am student is usually the worse part of the team - after all, they never had to confront their problems as a dancer. They have someone they pay by the minute to make them feel good....