This might be too low level discussion for the big three or four of the thread, but the question appears to be originated from a beginner.
Serendipity wrote or quoted from the manual- ‘The man should lead the lady to move more sideways on step 2.'
I do not think the following is an uncorrectable error even if not 100% technically correct per the manual.
Dot says the man needs not to lead as much as to just to take a shorter step and allow her to pass and not step across and block her dance line In other words, her step 2 is more aggressive than the man's. In fact she prefers a lead on steps 1 and 3 but almost none on step 2. This may be a personal preference but stresses this leading to the new men she teaches.
Is she wrong?