I have been fortunate to suffer no foot problems other than some callouses and the occasional broken toe.
I did a search on "cheilectomy recovery" and found that there are experiences documented on various sites over the past few years. I;d encourage you to do the same.
Have you had this discussion with your surgeon? He or she should be able to put you in touch with other patients who may be willing to share their recovery experiences.
Also, you should get a second opinion.
I have an older dancing friend who suffered with a neuroma for years but kept putting off surgery due to the same fears that you have. Eventually, she developed back problems from favoring the sore foot (you can't say that you won't favor it; doing so is not a conscious action).
She wound up having both back surgery and foot surgery. The good news is that she's dancing again.
Good luck.
jj