"Anononymous. I thought you would be drawn into this. Richard Gleaves says on his tape that in a competition or a demonstration he always counted every beat for at least eight bars or so."
Wierd... but "at least eight bars or so"
strongly implies that he STOPPED counting once he felt comfortable and settled into the ARTISTIC tasks of dancing.
If you stop counting and rely on feeling too soon, before your feeling is worthy of trust, you will be sloppy. But if you never stop counting and trust your feelings, you will not be DANCING.
Dancing can only occur when you move past concern for the details. Of course, you can only get away with moving past concern for the details when the details are GOOD. Counting is one TOOL that can help improve them. But it is not, ultimately a part of dancing, instead it is a part of preparing/training to dance.