I have read all the replies to my message and must say that I really, really appreciate the encouragement. It is comforting to know that others have the same problem and overcame it. I will somehow, struggle through this until I obtain what my goal was....to enjoy dancing and let dancing become relaxing. This is so important to me, something I have wanted since childhood. Yesterday, I had two private lessons and a group class schedule. I was as anxious as one could get. It carried over to the private lessons, which I was not impressed with at all, however: after reading all the replies I am not so discouraged. I will continue to make myself go to some groups until I am more comfortable with it. I thank each of you for your encouragemnt.